If homework with your strong-willed son turns into a nightly standoff, screen pulls, stalling, and explosive reactions the moment you hold a limit, you are dealing with one of the most common patterns among strong-willed,…
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What happens AFTER screens go off?
Hey Friends I’m back from Burning Man. It was a rough one this year, but still offered plenty of growth in the face of challenges. Maybe I’ll share more about that another time. 🙂 And…
Are you in relational mode or administrative mode?
If you’re new here, welcome! This is my periodic newsletter where I share two curated tips or resources I think you’ll love. Next week, my husband and I leave for Burning Man, where we’ll be…
The year I stopped making school lunches + Back to School Event!
Hey there, Are you starting to feel the tug of school on the calendar? I certainly am! Let’s not hide from reality. I’ve got two great tips for kicking off the school year strong. 1. …
The Power of Playing cards plus the parenting superpower I learned from Black Widow
Hey there, I’m at sleepaway camp! Every summer, I spend a few weeks working on the Mental Health Team at my son’s overnight camp. The best thing about it? Working directly with the kids. It’s…
Don’t just ask, “How was it?”
This week, my oldest will graduate from high school. Today, I feel like I’m just going through the motions, not quite connected to what it all means yet. I suspect the floodgates will open when…
Summer Challenge and Anti-Porn Event
Hey! Summer break is here, and many parents are asking the same question: “How do I prevent my child from getting sucked into a screen abyss?” Today’s tips are about creating a more intentional summer,…
Screen Tip – Borrow Attention and 4 Steps
Hey! This weekend is Mother’s Day and I hope you saw my post about how to set yourself up for success. If you missed it, you can read it here: Don’t Fall for the Mother’s Day…
Don’t Fall for the Mother’s Day Trap: Follow These Two Rules
I used to feel disappointed on Mother’s Day every year. Unmet expectations abounded. I followed all the rules.I communicated my wishes clearly.I stated my needs.I requested time off from the hard parts of parenting, like…
Hard conversations just got easier
Hi! I’ve been thinking a lot this week about those conversations with our kids that we know we need to have (or should have) but dread starting, especially knowing they make everyone uncomfortable. This week’s tips are…