I’ve been thinking about how important the WAY we talk about our feelings is, so we’re not modeling being judgemental of others. For example, when driving and someone cuts me off, instead of saying, “Oh,…
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What to do when your kid says, “I hate you!”
Do you take it personally when your child says, “I hate you!” Or tells you you’re the worst parent ever? Or in my case, “You call yourself a parent coach, right?“ The thing is when…
Are you reinforcing the negative stories about your son or the positive ones?
Parenting Tip: Reinforce positive traits, not negative ones. Take a moment to reflect on how your son sees himself. Does he feel like the “bad kid” who gets into trouble? It’s important to understand his…
How old should kids be to start family meetings?
Someone responded to my email last week about doing a family meeting before school starts, which included coming up with bedtime routines, morning routines, chores, screen time, and anything else for getting ready for the…
What happens when kids are stressed out
There’s something I believe parents get wrong… The belief that they can “parent behavior _out_ of their kid”. “If I just say the right thing… If I just do the right thing… then they’ll stop…
Why Relationship Matters With Your Son?
There’s something I believe parents get wrong… The belief that they can “parent behavior _out_ of their kid”. “If I just say the right thing… If I just do the right thing… then they’ll stop…
Working Together As Parents
How do you and your parenting partner team up to instill values in your children and inspire cooperation? If that’s not so easy to answer, do you find yourselves trying to prove who’s right…
Are you doing it right?
Feel like you’re in a constant power struggle with your son? Take it as a sign that your current strategies simply aren’t working. We’ve all been there. I’d love to help you shift your…
How does collaborating with your son solve big challenges?
Feel like you’re in a constant power struggle with your son? Take it as a sign that your current strategies simply aren’t working. We’ve all been there. I’d love to help you shift your…
Creating Micro-Connections
“Parenting Micro-Aggressions” are those little things we do throughout the day that knock our kids down a notch. “You didn’t do this!” “You did this wrong.” “Why would you do that?!” I teach my clients…